Something something....

Long time since i put up a real post.. No, m not updating rite now bout alllll the recent events.. which r too many to count neways! :P Just writing nething i feel like..not done this since soooo long..

At one point of time i thought its enough that someone loves you to have them in your life.. Well now i kno thats completely baseless.. unless u luv d person u wil not care whether or not dat person loves u.. Wat really matters in life is wat u feel, not wat others feel..

Always do wat ur heart says, not caring bout wat ne1 else has to say bout it.. Ur own thoughts, views about urself, ur life wil make u decide wat is wrong n rite for urself.. Be Selfish.. Only u kno wat wil make u happy, do it.. Only u kno who u r, wat u r, or ur good n bad qualities.. Anyone else can love u if and only if u love urself.. U cannot keep changing ur views about urself, about nething in fact, based on wat ppl around u say.. U just cannot judge urself based on wat others hav to say about u, wat others think about u.. They r all insecure n they'll try to make u insecure.. Most of d ppl cannot handle others happiness well.. Ppl r easily jealous of things they see n find so appealing that they want it for themselves.. they'll hence not let u hav it too if they cant.. Such things include ur personality.. Dont u dare change a thing about urself which u like..
But do change things u dont like.. Not feeling happy, satisfied is linked do some desire for change, do bring about that change u always wanted.. Dont b afraid to change just because u r not sure of ppl's reactions to it.. With no changes, progress stops..
Just do wat u wish n enjoy it.. If it turns out not so good, be ready to change again.. Experimenting, trying out different things is d essence of life.. Dont forget there r no rules.. Life isnt a game to play.. Its just a fun thing which will go on no matter u r happy or not.. Time will pass without asking ur permission.. Its ur choice wat u make out of it.. U decide how many precious moments u want to hav.. If u wish u can make each second count.. Happiness isnt a feeling that comes n goes by its own accord.. Its a state of mind that can b changed at ur own will.. Never stop enjoying..
But being selfish doesnt mean going out there n hurting ppl.. i'm dead sure that doesnt make u happy.. One of d most common thing that makes ppl happy is making others happy.. But they often forget that they r trying to make others happy just because it makes them happy n not to please everyone around or to gain their approval.. No one here has d capability to judge u.. But that doesnt mean that they dont feel for u or with u.. Making others happy is not such a difficult task.. A simple smile can also do wonders..
Be selfish but dont b a miser.. Give others as much happiness as u can without hurting urself or losing out on urself.. Only if u think for urself first can u think for others..
Its really fun to live life in such a way.. where u kno dat u r happy n dat u hav d power to make others happy too.. This thought in itself can giv u d energy to go about the day doing everything u wanted..

We r born with certain relations, thats our family.. n on our path we make a lot many more relations, our friends.. This doesnt mean ur family has been forced upon u.. its up to u b happy wid them or b miserable.. the way u treat others, they'll treat u too.. giv luv n u'll get back luv.. U r an individual, capable of lots of emotions, feelings, having lots of power over everything around u.. Often u'll find urself giving out advice to ppl who r meant to advise u like ur parents.. U'll some or d other time in ur life parent ur parents.. in every relation role reversal does take place evry now n then.. In a marriage not always the husband will prove to b rock steady nor will always d wife think from her heart.. just like the guy can cook n d lady rake in d money, they can reverse their roles emotionally too.. Say yes to any role u r offered n hav fun while at it.. u never kno wen its time to change n b d one responsible instead of being d kid who has all liberties to play all the while as they wish.. N it comes naturally, u wudnt even kno or wud hav to put in special efforts for any of it..
Just observe ur own life, others around u n see it happen every minute, every second around u..